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I keep seeing this meme,

"He won. Get over it.

It bothers me, and last week, seeing a listserve flaming match full of it, it began (in the shower, where, as has been said before, I tend to mull matters of weighty thought) to dawn on me why.

It's bullshit. I mean we all know it's bullshit. It's a rhetorical way of someone saying, "shut up," without resorting to that much open aggression.

It's discountive. As if the mere fact of my guy losing invalidates what I have to say on the issues.

Which is bullshit. We have elections, not annointings. Being declared the winner doesn't give said winner a free ride (and most certainly it doesn't when the margin of the victory was so small as it was in the most recent presidential election). If I had doubts and reservations about a candidate before the election, they don't magically fade away when the tally gets totted up.

What really irks me is I know the people doing this, and they are not being honest, because they were shrill, to the point of incoherence; with non-sensical ramblings (I still hear about the "murders" the Clintons managed to commit/have committed), when they were on the losing side.

But now... heck, their guy won and we need to, get over it.

Bullshit. If he can be "the kind of guy who stands up for what he knows is right, even when the rest of the world disagrees," so can I. More to the point, I will.

If I have to be a preacher in the wilderness, so be it. If it means I get treated to scorn and ridicule (beyond my portion) so be it. If it means some people stop reading me, then regrettably; because I hope to persuade those outside the choir, so be it.

I am not going to trim my sails to public opinion. I shan't bow my head to men, nor bend my knee. I do not have a king; my natural superior, I have a president, who is, at best, primus inter pares and I am one of that parity.

If those who take issue with what I have to say don't like it, well I have three words for them.

"Get over it"




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Date: 2004-12-06 10:56 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bella-peligrosa.livejournal.com
Amen! I haven't taken much issue with this particular line of thinking lately because I'm already busy working on the next (local) election (trying to oust some school board members) But it needed to be said.

Thank you!!

Date: 2004-12-06 10:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lahermite.livejournal.com
hehe.

Terry at his finest.

Bravo!

Date: 2004-12-06 11:00 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pdx42.livejournal.com
Bueno Manifesto!

But you won't be a "preacher in the wilderness", because I'll be there, too.

For me

Date: 2004-12-06 11:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] skip-hunter.livejournal.com
that meme only applies to one facet: the election itself. mind you I voted for the other guy, and even i have to say move on. if we continue to fight a fight that is lost, that is less we can apply to the fights ahead of us.

Re: For me

Date: 2004-12-06 11:14 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pecunium.livejournal.com
But you see, it doesn't.

The thing which pissed me off was when a comment on the new policies of the present administration were criticised, the critic was told to get over it, because Bush won.

TK

Re: For me

Date: 2004-12-06 11:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bella-peligrosa.livejournal.com
Now see, I can understand being pissed at that. After all, these are current decisions being made. While we can't change who is President, we can certainly change the policies. And we should be damn mad about what's happening. Letting go of that election anger allows us to become complacent...and allows us to forget that we need to do better this time. And we need to do what we can to make sure that only the best policies get through.

Although, alternatively, I've found just as many liberals being coarse about the whole deal...not as a matter of not letting go, but not admitting that life does move on. Me? I'm looking forward while still feeling that gust of wind at my back.

Re: For me

Date: 2004-12-06 11:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] hammercock.livejournal.com
The thing which pissed me off was when a comment on the new policies of the present administration were criticised, the critic was told to get over it, because Bush won.

Right, because the fact that he won means that all his policies and stances are automatically Right and Good and MoralTM.

Date: 2004-12-07 12:21 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] fritz-freiheit.livejournal.com
Most politicians, and I suspect Bush more than most, fail to remember that the they serve the public. Including the "minority". So, I say to them, "Get with it and serve."

Date: 2004-12-07 12:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] airneail.livejournal.com
I'll gladly follow you, preacher!!!

Date: 2004-12-07 01:21 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] supergee.livejournal.com
I'm not sure I've gotten over the first theft.

One answer

Date: 2004-12-07 01:23 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dsgood.livejournal.com
"Goldwater lost. Get over it!"

Re: One answer

Date: 2004-12-07 02:00 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] zoje-george.livejournal.com
Heh. So true.

Date: 2004-12-07 03:02 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pygmymetal.livejournal.com
Terry for President! :D

Date: 2004-12-07 03:22 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Go Terry!

Susan in St. Paul

Date: 2004-12-07 04:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mcduff.livejournal.com
Remember you've got 49.5% of America and 80% of the Rest Of The World behind you on this, mate. That's not a minority.

Date: 2004-12-07 04:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] tongodeon.livejournal.com
It was a bad decision to vote Bush before the election and it remains a bad decision after the election. A bad decision that people made doesn't make it moot. It's still a bad decision.

If Bush reveals that the war wasn't based on intentional fabrications, brings peace to Iraq, rebalances the budget, and revalues the dollar, THEN I will get over it.

Date: 2004-12-07 10:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] antiquated-tory.livejournal.com
Frankly, I'd settle for a reasonable outcome on Iraq; i.e. one that doesn't leave them looking like Lebanon in the 1970s and us like complete assholes.

Date: 2004-12-07 08:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] pecunium.livejournal.com
This is funny to me. This seems a sort of, "We have to stick it out, because we can't afford to fail," which was the Republican policy for staying in Viet-nam.

Right now, with 14 bases in Iraq being planned, discussion of PCS tours (a la Korea) and suchlike, we aren't planning to get out.

We are planning, so it seems, a permanent force there. I can see a number of reasons for this, and I like none of them.

More to the point, the only good chances I can see for an avoidance of Lebanon, is more on the order of Iran. Even that seems less than stable. We made a mess, and unlike a spilled puzzle, I think this is dropped eggs.

TK

Date: 2004-12-07 10:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ad-kay.livejournal.com
Terry, I've been mulling the different possible scenarios in my mind, and you can sum all of them up thusly: we're screwed. With the same people who dropped the eggs still in charge... how could it be anything but?

Date: 2004-12-11 12:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] antiquated-tory.livejournal.com
Well, I think you're probably right. On the other hand, if we pulled out right now it would definitely be a 100% catastrophic outcome, as opposed to only almost 100%. But I really don't want to echo Republican policy on Vietnam. In short, I don't know what the Hell to do.
This of course doesn't matter--I'm only a slob in Prague. It's that apparently the Administration also does not know what the Hell to do and furthermore never did. Even the most ardent supporters of the invasion I know are gobsmacked by this. (not to mention people like myself who said 'Naw, they can't really be that stupid, they'd never risk this much if they didn't know what they were doing...')
I somehow don't think we're going to end up with all these permanent bases throughout Iraq, though. My current bet is an American protected Kurdistan (and won't our allies the Turks love that?) with a serious permanent base and God knows what else in the rest of the country, besides some Great Game action between us and Iran in the South, which we will doubtlessly screw up and lose. Unless Lancelot Link goes completely mad and invades Iran, of course, but I'd rather not think about that. Not before breakfast.

Date: 2005-02-10 12:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ad-kay.livejournal.com
Whoa, I musta missed your comment back in Dec.! How'd that happen? 'Naw, they can't really be that stupid, they'd never risk this much if they didn't know what they were doing... Yup, that was me too! I finally came around to the realization that yes, they ARE completely clueless.

Unless Lancelot Link goes completely mad and invades Iran, of course.. Well, you wrote this on Dec. 11 and today Condi was making cluck-clucking noises over Iran's nuclear capability. And Seymour Hersh says we already have operatives in Iran. Just like the Project for the New American Century asses wanted.

Date: 2005-02-10 09:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] antiquated-tory.livejournal.com
Well, I still think an invasion of Iran is very unlikely, as those aren't the kinds of noises Condi is making. I think a nuclear Iran is pretty much unavoidable at this point. The reformists in Iran are for the most part staunch nationalists and favor getting the Bomb even more than the Council of Guardians do. Also, Tehran is rather more clever than Baghdad and has dispersed its development centers, with many of them in cities, making even limited military strikes a doubtful option. What Hersh says makes sense, since sabotage is probably the only remaining military option. And there pretty much are no diplomatic options, since the Iranians have decided no combination of carrots and sticks would be more advantageous to them than having the Bomb. And under current circumstances, they're probably right.

Date: 2004-12-07 02:32 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ad-kay.livejournal.com
The "get over it" meme is an expression of the "sore winner" mentality that L.A. Weekly columnist John Powers describes:

"The Bush years may be the coarsest period in our nation’s history.... Today’s Winners don’t simply win, they win badly: bragging, sneering, lording it over the Losers, and promoting themselves with a crassness that would leave Duddy Kravitz blushing....The Bush administration is a veritable hive of Sore Winners, whether it’s the president scowling peevishly at questions that Reagan would have dispatched with a joke, the vice president sneering that energy conservation is no more than “personal virtue,” or Rummy treating everyone from reporters to generals as if they were no brighter than whelks."

http://www.laweekly.com/ink/04/36/features-powers.php

Date: 2005-02-09 11:30 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] jennae.livejournal.com
That is most eloquent and appropos. Thanks, I love it.

...and I'm still not over it either.

Date: 2005-02-10 12:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ad-kay.livejournal.com
I'm not planning to get over it... I'm a member of the loyal opposition and I plan to Raise Hell.

Date: 2004-12-07 02:59 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] sethg
And during Clinton's term, the Republicans set such a good example of "getting over it"....

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