Hat in hand.
Jul. 7th, 2009 10:11 amThis has been a year that didn't go as it was planned.
The summer even less so. I was planning to move to SLO, in the middle of August. At this point I am moving to Aptos, near Santa Cruz. I've got a place to go, but right now I'm, effectively, broke. In part because of the economy here being more depressed now than when I got here, and in part, I suspect, because I had to be gone for the seminar.
So I am a little short of money.
To make the jump, at the level of, doable; but nervous, I need about $700 more than I have now.
To be "comfortable" I need about $1,700 (my potential landlords are willing to be flexible on paying "last", but I'd like to have the cushion of paying that, a second month's rent, and some food money. I am pretty sure I can get a job adequate to the costs I'll have (about 800 a month, net, will have me poor, but secure; until the GI Bill comes into play).
To be doing it, "easy". I need about $3,500, because that will let me get a bike, and so have independent transport.
So, if you can afford to buy a print... this is the time. If you'd like to help, and can't afford to buy a print, I have a "donate" button for Paypal.
Just to explain, CG is the catalyst. No denying that the idea of two LDRs, one a "mere" 250 miles, and the other some 2,500 is just a bit much. This changes one of them to 50 miles. There are, however, other advantages..
The VA hospital in Palo Alto.
A bettter economy for finding a job.
The cost of living is about the same.
A better, general market for selling photographs.
More of my friends in the area.
I'd just tough it out, manage to find a job (even, if needs be, greeter at Wal-mart; evil though I think them to be), and move when I have the money, but the place I have a line on is realy good. Nice people, affordable, close to a school, a great Aikido Dojo, close, but not too close to CG, etc.
So, if you are so inclined, I can't say how grateful I'd be for what you can spare.
The summer even less so. I was planning to move to SLO, in the middle of August. At this point I am moving to Aptos, near Santa Cruz. I've got a place to go, but right now I'm, effectively, broke. In part because of the economy here being more depressed now than when I got here, and in part, I suspect, because I had to be gone for the seminar.
So I am a little short of money.
To make the jump, at the level of, doable; but nervous, I need about $700 more than I have now.
To be "comfortable" I need about $1,700 (my potential landlords are willing to be flexible on paying "last", but I'd like to have the cushion of paying that, a second month's rent, and some food money. I am pretty sure I can get a job adequate to the costs I'll have (about 800 a month, net, will have me poor, but secure; until the GI Bill comes into play).
To be doing it, "easy". I need about $3,500, because that will let me get a bike, and so have independent transport.
So, if you can afford to buy a print... this is the time. If you'd like to help, and can't afford to buy a print, I have a "donate" button for Paypal.
Just to explain, CG is the catalyst. No denying that the idea of two LDRs, one a "mere" 250 miles, and the other some 2,500 is just a bit much. This changes one of them to 50 miles. There are, however, other advantages..
The VA hospital in Palo Alto.
A bettter economy for finding a job.
The cost of living is about the same.
A better, general market for selling photographs.
More of my friends in the area.
I'd just tough it out, manage to find a job (even, if needs be, greeter at Wal-mart; evil though I think them to be), and move when I have the money, but the place I have a line on is realy good. Nice people, affordable, close to a school, a great Aikido Dojo, close, but not too close to CG, etc.
So, if you are so inclined, I can't say how grateful I'd be for what you can spare.
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Date: 2009-07-07 03:56 pm (UTC)What would we do without paypal? :)
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Date: 2009-07-07 04:42 pm (UTC)Yes, two LDRs can be a lot, and I'm not dealing with as long a distance as your 2,500 miles. (We make this work, but we're weird, and I do also have a live-in partner.)
I will talk to
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Date: 2009-07-07 04:46 pm (UTC):)
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Date: 2009-07-07 05:55 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-07-07 05:59 pm (UTC)I am slightly conflicted on the whole idea, but it was this, or waiting, probably to November, to do this.
So I bit the bullet.
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Date: 2009-07-07 06:04 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-07-07 06:30 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-07-07 08:43 pm (UTC)Paypal is hating me, and will not let me donate.
I'll keep trying.
DV
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Date: 2009-07-07 08:45 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-07-07 08:47 pm (UTC)I appreciate the idea. I put a fair bit of time (writing, prepping, and following up) on my posts, and there are the other places I post. It's nice to be appreciated.
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Date: 2009-07-08 09:36 am (UTC)Thanks! She's going to have her birthday portraits done here at the end of the month. My very own little camera ham. I wonder how that happened? :)
I did get Paypal to let me donate, so allow me to wish you luck.
DV
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Date: 2009-07-08 01:21 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-07-08 06:53 pm (UTC)The kind of print I would be most interested in ordering is something from the Amoeba Hands Make A Family photoshoot you did. I'm willing to bet a lot of other poly folk would be similarly interested.
Of course, I'm not sure how you (or they) feel about pimping those out. I totally understand if not. But, maybe run it by the fam?
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Date: 2009-07-08 07:00 pm (UTC)I suspect they won't either (as my solvency is a thing we all care about, and they aren't really identifiable).
I'll run it past them.
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Date: 2009-07-09 01:23 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-07-09 09:13 pm (UTC)Yes.
Sure.
"I'd be happy to be hanging in her living room" (I presume other rooms would also be fine).
Hell yeah! sell that baby.
So, We can do this.
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Date: 2009-07-09 09:55 pm (UTC)Uh, first gut response is "But I don't have the suspension ring set up... Yet!"
Oh, you meant the print! ;)
Running out the door, will be back later to discuss more in depth.
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Date: 2009-07-09 10:27 pm (UTC)Hella wicked icon.
And interesting comment.
:)
We can work out details, I have some thoughts on this picture.
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Date: 2009-07-10 12:11 am (UTC)I'm reviewing the different pics and trying to choose a favorite, argh! Iz difficult!
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Date: 2009-07-10 12:43 am (UTC)Shall we take the discussion to e-mail, or phone?
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Date: 2009-07-10 12:45 am (UTC)Aaaand I think I'm out of cool icons now. :P
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Date: 2009-07-11 06:18 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2009-07-11 06:57 pm (UTC)Don't kick in what you can't spare. Really. One way or anothe I'll manage. There is no reason to put yourself in a bind to keep me out of one.
But no, it won't be too late. The time I'm trying to bridge is about a month (I hope. If it's much more than that, I'll have to find something else, because the area is just not surviviable).
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Date: 2009-07-11 07:18 pm (UTC)Aaaargh! *grin*
In another week, giving a little to someone I've come to value won't put us in a bind. I just was checking how time-crunchy things were. Otherwise I'd not have said a word.
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Date: 2009-07-21 10:32 pm (UTC)