I know that quite often, the 'turning point' for a serial killer or serial rapist is percieved rejection, but they really need to come up with a way of talking about it that doesn't blame the woman who may very well have saved herself!

After all, what if she had gone on that date. Maybe even a few dates. And THEN she figures out he's a bit...off...and stops dating him. Gee, then she's got him targetting on her even more.