Well, with the first one we thought it might be a fluke, or because it was a boy, so we had a second one. It wasn't. (On the other hand, he was a boy as well.) We didn't plan the third boy.

I love all of them, and am glad I had them, but I don't think anyone should have to go through that unless they are willing to. You could not pay me enough money to go through it again. Especially the pneumonia --that was scary.